We Were Made To Complete One Another...not compete with one another.

I saw this picture and it really spoke to my heart. All of these women putting their hands and fingers together in order to create a picture, a message of love. Every day I pray that God's daughters will begin to see that we were created to complete one another and not compete with one another. What a different world this could be if we would put our hands and fingers together and work together, beyond our denominational church walls, and reach out to one another, and others, in the name of Christ. If we could do that we, too, would be creating a beautiful picture, a hopeful message of love! So the next time you are tempted to compare yourself to another sister in Christ, or you are tempted to gossip, or judge, or criticize another, save this picture in your memory and resist the temptation. We are more powerful for the Kingdom together!

Life Can Be Confusing To Me

 

 

Sometimes life thoroughly confuses me. There are so many young adults who do amazing, and unselfish, things for humanity but receive no media coverage and no "tweets" from The First Lady. Thousands of men and women dedicate their lives in service for the country and many have given the ultimate sacrifice for others and the cause of freedom, yet their names are not mentioned and videos of "why" t...hey do it are never shared on the internet and there is no "official congratulations" from The President of the U.S. on their "courage and bravery". Yes, sometimes this life thoroughly confuses me.



 It would seem that perhaps we have our priorities a little screwed up. Since when did someone's sexual orientation become such an achievement? I suppose some would say the reason that former University of Mo. football player, and NFL draft recruit, Michael Sam is getting such attention is because it is an "equal rights" issue, but I don't think so. If that were truly the case, and we were truly concerned with the equal rights of others, we would see the same kind of attention given to those with special needs, wounded warriors, those with mental illness, the elderly or the unborn. Truly these are the ones that could use some encouragement and assistance. Yes, sometimes this life thoroughly confuses me and even makes me sad.

I doubt we will ever see a picture of the young football player who has given his heart to Jesus and accepted Him as His Savior on ESPN. We probably won't ever see a group of reporters standing outside of the hospital doors waiting to talk to the single mother who decided to keep her unborn child. Nor will any of the young people living on college campuses who have decided to "wait until marriage" receive a presidential tweet or congratulations for their "courage and bravery".

 

 Yes, this life can be very confusing, especially to those who look for the "good" according to The Word of God. Yet, we should stay encouraged and encourage one another in the faith. Jesus warned us that these things would come to pass and He told us not to fear. There will be trouble in this world, but He has overcome the world, and those that live for Him, according to His principles, shall be saved and overcome as well.

Fruit? Anyone?

While waiting in the checkout line at the store with my groceries, the woman in front of me looked into my cart and began explaining to me how I could do better in caring for myself and family by being more selective in the foods I purchased and prepared. I politely listened to everything she was saying, and even agreed with her on a few things.

When the cashier finished scanning her groceries, she asked the woman, "is there anything else?" The woman responded, "Yeah, I'll take a couple of packs of Marlboro Lights." Say whaaaa? Seriously? She just reprimanded me for not buying my family Multi-Grain Eggos and Goat's Milk because it is healthier, and she is buying and smoking cigarettes?

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On my way to my car I sort of chuckled to myself about all that had just happened, thinking, "Wow, I certainly don't believe anything she told me about healthy living now. That was just crazy!" Then this thought "hit me"....that must be how non-believers feel about Christians who talk a lot about Jesus, but their lives look nothing like Jesus. They must feel just as I did, thinking to themselves, "what hypocrites!"

This experience brought Matthew 7:15-20 to my mind...
15 “Beware of false prophets who come disguised as harmless sheep but are really vicious wolves. 16 You can identify them by their fruit, that is, by the way they act. Can you pick grapes from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? 17 A good tree produces good fruit, and a bad tree produces bad fruit. 18 A good tree can’t produce bad fruit, and a bad tree can’t produce good fruit. 19 So every tree that does not produce good fruit is chopped down and thrown into the fire. 20 Yes, just as you can identify a tree by its fruit, so you can identify people by their actions.

To deceive ourselves into thinking we are taking care of our health by buying and eating fruit, AND smoking cigarettes, is a lie.

To deceive ourselves into thinking we are taking care of our spiritual health by talking about "God's fruit", but not, "producing any" is equally a lie.

People do pay attention and know the difference.

WELL

Today, I have been spending some time in my Bible and my eyes fell upon John 4 and Jesus meeting the woman at the well. It is a story many of us have heard and many pastors have preached about. Today as I read the story again my eyes kept going back to the word "well". I decided to do a quick definition search on-line for the word. Some definitions included: "a deep hole or shaft" ; " a container, or reservoir" ; "an abundant source or open space" ; "an enclosed space for receiving or holding something".

I then went back to my Bible and read the story again. As I am sure you know, God has a plan and a meaning for everything. It was not by chance that Jesus met "this woman" at a "well". It was not by accident that their conversation revealed her past and current situation, in regard to her husbands, or her live-in boy friend. Obviously, this woman was very troubled and was looking and longing for something more, although she really had no idea what it was she needed in order to complete her and bring her the kind of life she truly longed for.

Suddenly, the word "well" jumped off the page again to me. THAT'S IT! God KNEW her hurt was so deep, so buried in a hole inside of her heart that He sent Jesus to meet her at the "well". The way Jesus spoke to her "well" , her "situation", He showed her that He knew and understood her need for something else, something that was life-giving and eternally satisfying. He told her how she could fill up that "reservoir", that "container" , with a "living water" that would refresh her soul and bring her new life! The deep well of hurt, confusion and disappointment could be healed and should could instead have an "abundance" of peace, hope, joy and love for eternity!

John 4:25 & 26 records the conversation between Jesus and the woman at the well and her accepting Him as the Messiah. At that moment her heart changed. She went back to her village and told the people, "Come see a man who knew all about the things I did, who knows me inside and out. Do you think this could be the Messiah?" And they went to see for themselves.

The Bible goes on to record how MANY of the Samaritans from that village committed themselves to Him because of THIS woman's witness. They asked Jesus to stay longer so Jesus stayed an extra two days. Alot more people entrusted their lives to him when they heard what He had to say. They said to the woman, "We're no longer taking this on your say-so. We've heard it for ourselves and know it for sure. He's the Savior of the world!"

All of this brought me to my own "well" experience. I had been married five times, and the man I was living with then, was not yet my husband. I had been looking for something, someone, to fill the "deep well" of hurt and disappointment in my own life. I had become an outcast because of my choices, I was alone. But Jesus met me right where I was and in a little church in Quincy, Il., the pastor preached a message that I knew was Christ talking directly to me. It convinced me that He did know me, inside and out, and it was time I knew Him.

What is the "deep well" of hurt in your life that is holding you back from experiencing His complete hope, peace, joy and love?

What does your heart "hold or contain"? Is it anger, bitterness, unforgiveness, or fear? Do these things need to be replaced with an "abundance of Jesus, The Messiah?"

God does not do anything with it having a purpose or meaning. A little word like "well" really got my attention today.

When peace, like a river, attendeth my way,
when sorrows like sea billows roll;
whatever my lot, thou hast taught me to say,
It is well, it is well with my soul.

It is well with my soul,
it is well, it is well with my soul.

Though Satan should buffet, though trials should come,
let this blest assurance control,
that Christ has regarded my helpless estate,
and hath shed his own blood for my soul.


My sin, oh, the bliss of this glorious thought!
My sin, not in part but the whole,
is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more,
praise the Lord, praise the Lord, O my soul!


And, Lord, haste the day when my faith shall be sight,
the clouds be rolled back as a scroll;
the trump shall resound, and the Lord shall descend,
even so, it is well with my soul.